For the woman who wants honest, secure, real love.
Through relationship coaching and deep inner work, I help you communicate without chaos, let go of control, repair what’s been broken, and support you to build the relationship you actually want.
There comes a point when holding it all together no longer feels like strength. When control feels exhausting. When overthinking steals the peace from the relationship you actually want. When your old wounds are shaping more of your love life than you want to admit.
This is that moment.
Together, we work to rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and create the kind of relationship that feels safe, honest, connected, and deeply loving.
This is where old patterns break, self-abandonment ends, and a new chapter in love begins.
This is for the woman who…
✦ Has been hurt in love but refuses to let heartbreak, betrayal, or old pain define the love she creates moving forward.
✦ Knows she is strong, capable, and deeply self-aware, yet still finds herself overthinking, self-protecting, or struggling to feel safe in love.
✦ Is ready to stop repeating painful patterns and take honest ownership of the ways fear, control, and old wounds may still be shaping her relationship.
✦ Wants to trust herself more deeply, communicate clearly, and stop letting anxiety or self-doubt lead the way in love.
✦ Desires a relationship that feels calm, secure, fun, and deeply loving. One that not just looks good from the outside, but truly feels safe from the inside.
✦ Longs to express her needs without fear of rejection, abandonment, or having to lose herself in order to be loved.
✦ Is tired of carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone and wants to create real partnership without feeling the need to control everything.
✦ Craves intimacy that feels nourishing, playful, honest, and sexy, where she can be fully herself and truly seen.
✦ Is open to repair, willing to rebuild trust where it is possible, and ready to create stronger love through truth, responsibility, and emotional maturity.
✦ Is ready to create a relationship with herself and with her partner, that feels whole, secure, passionate, and built to last.
This is where everything begins to change
Hi! I’m Jess,
I’m a devoted partner, mother to a beautiful daughter, and a relationship coach for courageous women like you. It’s my greatest honour to support women in reconnecting with their authentic truth and feminine energy so they can release the weight of heartbreak, rebuild self-trust, and create relationships that truly thrive.
This is the journey I’ve walked too.
For years, my life looked picture-perfect. I had the career, the relationship, the home, the dog. But inside, I was numb, lost and disconnected from my body, my truth, and the intimacy I longed for. When betrayal, heartbreak, and loss came crashing down, it forced me to face the patterns I had always carried:
✦ Self-abandonment
✦ People-pleasing
✦ Competing with men
✦ The fear that I wasn’t enough.
That breaking point became the doorway to something deeper.
Since then, I’ve trained in VITA™ Love, Sex & Relationship coaching, nervous system healing, feminine & masculine embodiment, reiki and somatic trauma work. But more than the certifications, I’ve lived this work. I’ve rebuilt intimacy with myself and within my relationship, learning what it truly takes to feel safe in love again.
Now, I walk with women through that same transformation, so they too can release the shame, come home to their body, their truth, and finally experience love that feels safe, honest, and deeply alive.
An embodied, certified love & relationship coach for women.
Your journey begins here…
FOUR MONTH MENTORING
1:1 Private Coaching
Private coaching is where we go all in. Together, we’ll unravel old patterns of self-abandonment, heal shame, and reconnect you to your truth so you can create the intimacy, freedom, and love you desire. This is your space to feel deeply supported, seen, and guided every step of the way.
ON DEMAND LIBRARY
Freebies
Your on-demand library of powerful, transformational trainings, practices and workbooks designed to meet you exactly where you are. You’ll find access to my most impactful live masterclasses, guides and meditations, now available for you to download.
Think of it as your personal toolkit for growth, inspiration, and empowerment. No fluff, just soulful guidance you can revisit again and again.
IN PERSON WOMEN CIRCLES
The Sacred Sisterhood
We are all goddesses, we are all unique, we are all special, we are all beautiful. Once we learn the true art of sisterhood, the walls of comparison & judgement melt away, creating space to welcome in more love, compassion, joy and support from our fellow sisters.
Listen to my podcast
It’s time to wake up, expand your mind, and step into the relationships you truly desire. No more dimming your light or settling for less than you deserve, in love, in connection, or in life.
Each week, join inspiring conversations and unfiltered truths designed to help you become your boldest, most authentic, and deeply connected self. Because once you know who you are, you know what you want and you’ll stop at nothing to create it.
Hosted by love & relationship coach, somatic practitioner, and event facilitator Jessica Hayes, this podcast takes you behind the curtain with personal stories, expert guidance, and transformative lessons from years of high-level coaching. You’ll walk away with powerful insights, aligned action steps, and embodied practices to strengthen the most important relationship of all the one with yourself, so you can attract and sustain the love and connections you’re craving.
Helping your relationship thrive…
Download my free Couples Guide today! This couples check in guide supports you in building & sustaining relationships rooted in authenticity, alignment and appreciation, helping you experience conscious love. Because love isn’t just something we find, it’s something we consciously create.
